i've never tried it and i probably won't make it if i do, but i've heard making it to the 90 days does have positive effects on your body and mind
just google 90 day challenge to hear from people who've finished it
i'm gonna try
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suggest watching the Your Brain on Porn series (located on the sidebar) and reaing through the yourbrainonporn blogsite. There is a lot of great info there.
But in a nutshell; the idea is to give up an addiction, whether that be pornography, masturbation, or both (and usually they go hand in hand). The goal isn't to become sexless monks, but rather to enhance your sex life by going through a brain "reboot." Since pornography, our brains have become so accustomed to the visual side of fake, onscreen sex that we no longer react simply to a woman's kiss or a light touch. We begin to make excuses not to go out and meet people or get girls because we've become perfectly happy living in our fantasy world, where you can simply pleasure yourself and not have to worry about finding someone else to do it for you.
Conditioning the brain this way is unhealthy, and it has led to a lot of problems in the bedroom for many many men and women. The "reboot process" is done through giving up PMO (porn, masturbation, orgasm) for at least 90 days, letting your brain revert back. Your brain will heal, giving up the desensitizing harm that porn has done to it and be able to view sex in a better, more intimate light.
During this process, some people still choose to have orgasms as long as they are from real intercourse (though its said that it slows down the process for some people). Personally, I plan on going without porn or masturbation. I will have sex, but I plan on going without it for at least the first 30 days.
All in all, you're ridding yourself of an addiction; whatever you think that means to you. You're allowing your brain and body to stop being dependent on it. Its probably not for everyone, but I've read through all the benefits that seem to come from it and have decided I want that for myself, so I'm giving it a shot
If you want to give it a shot, you can check out the sidebar and get a counter badge to count the days (helps keep track of progress much easier) and find different web blockers and things you can install to keep you from wondering onto porn sites when the urge arises.
suggest watching the Your Brain on Porn series (located on the sidebar) and reaing through the yourbrainonporn blogsite. There is a lot of great info there.
But in a nutshell; the idea is to give up an addiction, whether that be pornography, masturbation, or both (and usually they go hand in hand). The goal isn't to become sexless monks, but rather to enhance your sex life by going through a brain "reboot." Since pornography, our brains have become so accustomed to the visual side of fake, onscreen sex that we no longer react simply to a woman's kiss or a light touch. We begin to make excuses not to go out and meet people or get girls because we've become perfectly happy living in our fantasy world, where you can simply pleasure yourself and not have to worry about finding someone else to do it for you.
Conditioning the brain this way is unhealthy, and it has led to a lot of problems in the bedroom for many many men and women. The "reboot process" is done through giving up PMO (porn, masturbation, orgasm) for at least 90 days, letting your brain revert back. Your brain will heal, giving up the desensitizing harm that porn has done to it and be able to view sex in a better, more intimate light.
During this process, some people still choose to have orgasms as long as they are from real intercourse (though its said that it slows down the process for some people). Personally, I plan on going without porn or masturbation. I will have sex, but I plan on going without it for at least the first 30 days.
All in all, you're ridding yourself of an addiction; whatever you think that means to you. You're allowing your brain and body to stop being dependent on it. Its probably not for everyone, but I've read through all the benefits that seem to come from it and have decided I want that for myself, so I'm giving it a shot
If you want to give it a shot, you can check out the sidebar and get a counter badge to count the days (helps keep track of progress much easier) and find different web blockers and things you can install to keep you from wondering onto porn sites when the urge arises.
*Proceeds to delete all porn from the hard drive*
So whenever I really feel like jacking my **** or watching porn later on I'll just substitute with TV, video games, or exercise.
I know I can do this. Longest I've gone was a month.
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Originally Posted by AITheAnswerAI
You don't see the point of it because your virgin *** doesn't even talk to females.
Ok breh, thanks for the ad-hominem attack when I wasn't even talking to you but I digress
The way I see it, is that unless you're a porn addict who has desensitized yourself to the point where you don't get hard around women anymore then I don't see the point of having to do this
Clown me for being a virgin all you want but at least I'm not desensitized to women
Ok breh, thanks for the ad-hominem attack when I wasn't even talking to you but I digress
The way I see it, is that unless you're a porn addict who has desensitized yourself to the point where you don't get hard around women anymore then I don't see the point of having to do this
Not tryna clown you, just sayin that's the reason you don't get it.
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Originally Posted by AAKing23
Clown me for being a virgin all you want but at least I'm not desensitized to women
Not that would matter for you anyways Aint nobody desensitized by women, this is a personal challenge here, seeking advancement.
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somebody gettin arrested between now and that 90th day
Aint nobody desensitized by women, this is a personal challenge here, seeking advancement.
you can watch porn without masturbating? they go hand in hand....(no pun 
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